Yasmine Ross
Written & Posted by Yasmine RossRelationship Coach, Writer

How to Meet People in Real Life and Not Just Dating Apps

10 Jan, 2024
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Don’t Let Meeting People in Real Life Go Extinct!

In a world that often seems to prioritize digital interactions over face-to-face connections, meeting new people as a single person can be both exhilarating and challenging. With a plethora of dating apps, it almost seems like the easiest and most accepted way to meet someone new. However, if you’re still an old-school hopeless romantic and dating apps aren’t your thing, there are tons of ways to meet someone au naturel.

There’s no shame in needing a little guidance on building the connection of your dreams, psychotherapy can help you expand your love life or social circle. Whether you’re newly single or have been living the solo life for a while, building meaningful connections with others is an essential part of personal growth and fulfillment.

5 Ways to Meet Someone in Person and Build your Social World

Expand Your Social Spaces

One of the most effective ways to meet new people is by putting yourself in environments where you're likely to encounter like-minded individuals. Attend local events, join a club centered around your interests, or try picking up a new hobby and join a class.

Whether it's a book club, a hiking group, or a cooking class, shared activities can create natural opportunities for conversation and connection. Plus if it’s an activity you genuinely like and are interested in, you’ll attract people who share those similar interests and values as you.

Embrace the Power of Networking

Networking isn't just for professionals—it's a valuable tool for expanding your social network. Attending networking events in your community or industry can allow you to already have a base of connection. Similarly to sharing common interests, your environments and social circles are already interlinked making it much easier to find a commonality and point of discussion.

Never Underestimate the Power of Mutual Friends

There are lots of stories where romantic couples, best-friends, or business partners have met through mutual friends. You never know who you might meet at your friend’s next Halloween party, so take the plunge and meet your friend’s friends. Participating in such events not only exposes you to new faces but also allows you to engage in relaxed, social environments.

Volunteer for a Cause You Care About

Volunteering not only allows you to contribute to a cause you're passionate about but also puts you in contact with people who share the same values and passion for helping others. Plus, working together towards a shared goal creates a sense of camaraderie, making it easier to connect and bond on a personal level.

Overall Remain Open

Whether you struggle with social interactions or experience social anxiety, remember to approach social situations with a positive mindset. If the thought of coming up to a complete stranger makes you wish you just stayed home in the first place then allow yourself to have an open and approachable demeanor. Making eye contact, smiling, and using open gestures, creates a warm and welcoming energy. But if you’re looking to get out of your comfort zone, don't hesitate to approach others first! If you find someone interesting at an event or in a social setting, strike up a conversation. A simple "hello" can be the first step towards a meaningful connection.

Still not sure where to start? Seek Additional Support

Anxiety therapy can help guide you with overcoming feelings about dating again. At An Elegant Mind our therapists are here to support you in actively seeking out social opportunities, embracing new experiences, and being genuine in your interactions. You'll find support in understanding the complex dating scene and that expanding your social circle is not only achievable but also enriching. Connections take time to develop, so be patient and enjoy the process of building meaningful relationships.

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